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Simple strategies to slow down and savor the small moments this December.

December is here, and the holidays are in full swing. It’s the most wonderful time of the year… or at least, it’s supposed to be. But between the shopping lists, holiday parties, and endless to-dos, it’s easy to feel like the season is passing by in a blur. Sound familiar? Trust me, I’ve been there too.

The truth is, finding peace during the holidays doesn’t happen by accident. It takes intentional choices and mindful habits to keep the season from overwhelming us. And while the world around us may feel like it’s speeding up, we can find joy in slowing down. This post is all about embracing the small moments, simplifying where we can, and creating space for what truly matters during the holiday season.

If you’re craving a more peaceful December, keep reading. I’ve got five actionable tips to help you breathe easier, find joy in the little things, and actually enjoy this magical time of year. Be sure to reach out to me on Instagram, Threads, or Facebook with your thoughts—I’d love to hear how you’re embracing these tips. You can also follow me on Pinterest and Benable for more cozy inspiration, and don’t forget to sign up for my newsletter for extra mindful living ideas delivered straight to your inbox!

It’s so easy to get caught up in the more of the holiday season—more gifts, more plans, more everything. But sometimes, less is more.

Simplify Your Holiday Priorities

Ask yourself: What really matters to me this season? Is it spending time with family? Baking cookies with the kids? Curling up with a cup of tea and a good book? Whatever it is, make it a priority.

I remember one year I spent hours crafting the perfect holiday decorations, only to realize that what I really cherished was the quiet evening we spent decorating the tree together. This year, my focus is on creating memories, not Instagram-worthy perfection.

Make It Practical

Try writing down your top three priorities for the season. Keep this list somewhere visible—on the fridge or even as your phone background—and let it guide your decisions. Need help staying intentional? Subscribe to my newsletter for my mindful reflection printable.

The holidays are packed with big events, but it’s often the small, quiet moments that bring the most joy.

Create a Relaxing Evening Routine

One of my favorite parts of December is my evening routine. After the busyness of the day, I light a candle, grab my crochet project, and let myself unwind. There’s something so grounding about those quiet moments of stillness.

If crafting isn’t your thing, try a 15-minute wind-down with a cup of herbal tea, journaling, or even watching the twinkle of the holiday lights. It doesn’t have to be fancy to be meaningful.

Add a Little Something Extra

Consider incorporating sensory elements to enhance the experience—like a cozy throw blanket, a diffuser with a calming essential oil blend, or a holiday playlist. I’ve linked some of my favorite cozy candles and self-care items to help you create your perfect moment.

Here’s a little holiday secret: no one’s season is as perfect as it looks on social media.

Accept the Messy, Imperfect Moments

That time the cookies burned because you were chasing the dog who stole an ornament off the tree? That’s a memory too. Life isn’t perfect, and the holidays don’t have to be either.

I’ve learned to let go of the need for everything to look and feel “just right.” One year, I ditched my Pinterest-inspired gift wrap and went with simple kraft paper and twine. You know what? Nobody cared. What mattered was the thought behind the gift, not how it was packaged.

December is full of moments worth savoring—if we take the time to notice them.

Practice Micro-Mindfulness

Try slowing down during everyday activities:

• When wrapping gifts, notice the sound of the paper crinkling.

• While baking, focus on the smell of cinnamon and vanilla.

• During family time, listen closely to the laughter and conversations.

It’s amazing how much peace you can find in the present moment.

Sometimes, the most peaceful thing you can do is say no.

Protect Your Time and Energy

Whether it’s skipping a party that doesn’t spark joy or setting limits on gift exchanges, it’s okay to prioritize your well-being. One year, I decided not to host a big holiday dinner. Instead, I invited close friends over for a potluck, and it was the best decision I made.

Conclusion: Embrace the Peace You Deserve

The holiday season doesn’t have to be overwhelming. By simplifying your priorities, savoring the small moments, and giving yourself permission to let go of perfection, you can find peace amidst the hustle.

I’d love to hear from you—what are your favorite ways to slow down during the holidays? Drop a comment below or send me a message on Instagram, Threads, or Facebook. Don’t forget to subscribe to my newsletter for more cozy tips and follow me on Pinterest and Benable for inspiration and my favorite finds this season.

Happy Holidays,

Cas Lin

Small Possibilities

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